so my dad just left us....

DREWDANK · Post by **DREWDANK** » Fri Jan 18, 2008 12:39 am

said he hated me...and shit...said i am no longer his son....
so i said fuck you....
and he just left

Rob P · Post by **Rob P** » Fri Jan 18, 2008 12:57 am

you're joking right?

Euclid Ov Oåklånd · Post by **Euclid Ov Oåklånd** » Fri Jan 18, 2008 1:04 am

I'm sorry to hear that, my dad left when I was about 3 and my mom proved she never needed his loser ass. I don't know your family situation but any guy that leaves a family is not a real man and your better off without him around. Find positive male role models and talk to you close friends for support and it's fine to feel hurt and expressing it will help you heal. Also I recommend using that emotion and energy to make your music which will help expel any negative feelings positively. If you wanna talk more pm me and I'll give you my cell phone number.

blast1 · Post by **blast1** » Fri Jan 18, 2008 1:21 am

sorry to hear that drew...

DREWDANK · Post by **DREWDANK** » Fri Jan 18, 2008 4:08 am

yeah i feel fucked....this is bullshit...hes a fuckin pussy

mostblunted · Post by **mostblunted** » Fri Jan 18, 2008 12:24 pm

sorry to hear that man.

I never even met my dad.

Dr. Tad Winslow · Post by **Dr. Tad Winslow** » Fri Jan 18, 2008 2:45 pm

That really sucks man. I am truly sorry to hear that. I know it's easy for me to sit here and type this shit, but Dr.Sample was right when he said try to channel that emotion into your music, it will help. Keep your head up and keep it moving. Don't do anything you'll regret later on. Learn and grow, homie.

jbl · Post by **jbl** » Fri Jan 18, 2008 3:24 pm

XxX, dude that sucks...

i have seen that sorta shit since as far as i can remember. on the bright side i eventually used it to create a more positive me. so just do that channelling stuff man, let it out on some jams.

PHeMoX · Post by **PHeMoX** » Fri Jan 18, 2008 6:34 pm

Sorry to hear that man, really sucks when people just leave instead of solving problems. :shock:

fauna · Post by **fauna** » Fri Jan 18, 2008 8:34 pm

oof. take care drew. use the peeps you got around you for support.

Dj Frantic · Post by **Dj Frantic** » Fri Jan 18, 2008 9:24 pm

wow...thats serious man. Im very sorry to hear that. Its a sad state our culture is in... things like this are the norm instead of the exception. I got you in my prayers homie. Stay up.

Huph · Post by **Huph** » Fri Jan 18, 2008 10:15 pm

That's terrible. I hope you have some friends nearby for support.

Absorb yourself in music, it always helps. We're all here for you, too.

Vynal Duss · Post by **Vynal Duss** » Fri Jan 18, 2008 11:21 pm

Keep strong homie, and try to stay as positive as possible, these are the types of things that make you stronger, Peace, Duss.

Skeet · Post by **Skeet** » Sat Jan 19, 2008 12:13 am

mostblunted wrote:sorry to hear that man.

I never even met my dad.

me neither... he left me and my mom when i was 2 months..

Olby · Post by **Olby** » Sat Jan 19, 2008 12:39 am

Man you are not alone on this side. My parents separated last year and since then I have never looked back. Now I have good relations with him and my moms. I have two houses to live. I now don't have to spend endless hours bullshittin' with my paps and such. Peace and keep up. Besides all beats I made on the infamous SP-505 come from that time of my life. Stay strong and express yourself in the music - this is what I do and believe me I helps a lot!

Peace,
Olby